Back Again

Back again

Well I am back again with loads of new things happened in my life..
well not really loads but one thing happened which seems like the biggest load ever, my wedding happened last Aug .I couldn’t believe that its already been 7 months I am married and lot of things are changed in my life .More importantly I think I am changed and became quite busy which is good.
I moved to New Jersey in Nov and took time off, relaxed, been a good wife ( cooked twice daily, cleaned home daily:)),I had so many plans when I was moving from Denver, I told my friends that I will go to gym regularly, will go for shopping when I am bored ( mall is just in front of my building :)).The first month just passed by very quickly as we used to spend most of the time shopping for my new apartment.
But then after that I realized that I am not the type of person who can enjoy by sitting at home and that too in a new place with no friends around and more over I was never alone.. Gosh my TV was best friend though and winter added to it. Being so sensitive to cold weather, I didn’t even feel like going out. Many people ask me like "You were from Denver and still you are not used to cold weather". What can I say, everybody is unique and God has given this unique quality to get cold a little more than normal people do .How I wish to settle in Atlanta or Florida one day. God please make my wish come true!!!
Coming back to my journey, after sitting at home for month, I desperately wanted a job and luckily there was an opening in Dec also and I joined in that company in PA though it’s like 45 miles away from my home. Then the new challenges began, taking a train and then a cab to office. I don’t know why, though being a proactive in all the aspects, I was lazy to give a driving test and now facing the gut out of it. Finally one day I thought of giving the test and realized I misplaced my H1B document and that added to my luck. But my office is a nice work place with free lunch and breakfast, nice bunch of people to work with and more importantly "no micromanagement"
I have always liked east coast better than other places as I have lot of friends and family around in just 2 or 3 hours drive. Surprisingly, every week somebody or the other, people who come from Denver for some reason to NJ, came down to see me and It’s such a good feeling as though seeing relatives from maternal side.
Married life has been good so far with nice ,cool and loving husband .It’s always nice to know that one person will always be there for you, to love you and care for you and I think ,with all the blessings ,I am handling all the challenges well which are quite common in the first year of marriage. I was the person who vowed not to change and everything such as change in priorities happened so quickly but that also feels good somehow.
Everybody says that, there would be lot of responsibilities after wedding, but for me to now it is an additional phone call to my in laws which is great as in getting extra warmth and love. Hope this continues 